Now, before you let any excuses or fears bully their way in and impede upon your love life, know that you can fall in love and truly be loved in return. I say this with the utmost sincerity. You just have to be ready to put yourself out there and be willing to let it happen. We forget sometimes that love is about vulnerability and letting your guard down sufficiently enough to really open up to another person. It’s not a competition. A potential partner is not an opponent that you need to outmaneuver. It’s about exposing your inner self, and that is a little scary. Love is something that you need to be ready for; you must be willing to take the risk. Once you do, you’ll find it is more than worth it.
The next time that you are on a date and it seems to be going well, you might want to try asking each-other a few questions from Mandy Len’s, ‘The Sharing Game’. This 36 question exercise is notorious for creating intimacy between people. As the questions go on, they get more and more personal. If you are on a first date, you might want to start with just the first five and continue moving on through the exercise during future dates.
The Sharing Game Questions:
- If you could invite anyone in the world to dinner, who would it be?
- Would you like to be famous? If so, in what way?
- Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
- What is your idea of a perfect day?
- When did you last sing to yourself or someone else?
This is a great, non-threatening first step at opening up to one another. Not only will this help you get to know your new potential partner a little bit better, but these questions are great for conversation and can be used as an ice-breaker.
Are You Ready to Find Love?
If you are ready to expand your happiness and have the love that you deserve? Then, stop waiting around for it to magically find you. You need to get out there so that it can happen. Unfortunately for us romantics, we don’t live inside of a Walt Disney movie. Little pink and blue birdies don’t tug at the tunics of our soulmates and guide them to our doors. We must take matters into our own hands.
Now that you’re ready, you’ll need someone compatible to date. If there is a certain person that you’ve had your eye on, make your move and get in touch with them. If you don’t have your eye on anyone in particular at the moment, you can sign up or free with us at Cupid’s Cronies. Our matchmakers are always looking for great new people and there is a whole world of expert help that you can gain access to (personal dating coaches, dating advice, wingmen/wingwomen, singles events & speed dating).
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