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Should I call him?

This is the question women ask themselves regularly after meeting a guy whom they exchanged contact information and promises to reconnect.  The answer is... it depends. There are two key factors to getting him to call and most importantly, not really worrying about it.

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Are You Ready To Be In Love?

Love is a strange and wonderful thing. We find ourselves fearing it, yearning for it, and in awe of it. And most of us, single or in a relationship, find it haunting the darkened hallways at the backs of our minds; ever present … always there. Even when we try to suppress it, thoughts of love incessantly push back, trying to make their way to the surface and make their presence known. When we are in a relationship, we wonder at the quality of our relationship with our partner. We wonder if we have found love or if one day we love them and they, us. Amazingly enough, even when we know that we love someone, it is still on our minds.  We still wonder at its details and occasionally try to quantify it with reasoning.

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What Does It Mean to Be a Crony for Cupid?

The term “crony” may bring to mind the image of an “old boys club” of politics with secret deals and favors for favors.  But what does it mean for us to be cronies for Cupid and cronies for love?  The term crony really implies a well-established friendship that stands the test of time.  Cronies have long histories with one another – mutually beneficial relationships that endure because of that unique closeness and understanding.  

At Cupid’s Cronies, we bring our sense of closeness with “Cupid” to those ready for (and deserving of) love.  We’re sensitive souls who enjoy helping others – and what better mission than helping singles find that enduring romance to bring a lifetime of happiness?  As cronies for Cupid, we are the architects that build the bridges between the abundance of love and romance in the world to connect two deserving individuals.

 

As cronies, we use our effective combination of keen intuition and objective problem-solving in order to get to know our clients on a deeply personal level in order to make the best matches possible.  We bring years and years of experience in knowing what it takes to find a loving match that can stand the test of time.

 

This “insider knowledge” gives us the perspective on what it takes to help clients overcome the obstacles and hurdles that may have sabotaged past relationships.  Because of our crony status with “Cupid,” we’ve got the inside track and favored knowledge on how to best break the barriers for each potential client and point them on the path toward love.

 

Our crony status in the realm of love also extends to helping our clients gain self-confidence and fulfillment on a personal level.  We’ll take the patient steps with you to gently guide you through the growing pains of learning to accept and love yourself in order to put your best and most deserving personage on Cupid’s market for love.

 

At Cupid’s Cronies, everyone wins, because our profit is the happiness of our clients.  Our favorable gains from Cupid come to us in the form of lasting love and expanded appreciation of others.  We want to make our crony status work for you and share the wealth of love and romance we know to be waiting for you.

 

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Overcoming Barriers to Love

There are many barriers that block us from obtaining loving and lasting relationships.  In daily life, the attributes of being independent, assertive and highly intelligent serves people well in their careers and in business.  But just because you have a strong grasp in these black-and-white areas of life doesn’t mean those same attributes will serve you well in the subtleties needed in maintaining and loving and equal relationship. Sometimes those admirable personality traits that allow you succeed in business or non-romantic aspects of your social life are what truly hold you back from finding love.  Often times, these are unhealed wounds developed in childhood or early relationships as a defense mechanisms or survival techniques – preventing yourself from feeling vulnerable or out of control, which in turn can lead to hurtful feelings of being exposed or weak and therefore less than.

Without even being aware that we’re doing it, we may be throwing up subconscious barriers to receiving love.  Change is difficult, both mentally and physically, so the act of moving in a healthier direction naturally throws up a feeling of resistance.

As a reflex, we default to self-protecting behaviors that may not lead to successful relationships – behaviors such as self-sabotage, projection of negative traits onto others and controlling actions, while giving a sense of stability, only foster dysfunctional relationships in the long run.

However, working with a relationship coach can help us break these bad habits that have built up over a lifetime.  From an objective perspective, a dating coach can help you recognize the patterns that are holding you back from taking a relationship to a long-term successful level where both partners are happy and fulfilled.

None of us have perfect communication or coping skills, but those of us who are open to recognizing our faults and actively working on them to change for the better will have the most success at finding lasting love.

It may be a scary thought to “turn over the rock” and see what’s underneath with respect to our faults.  But, ultimately, that hard work of clearing out the cobwebs will bring a greater peace and openness that will serve you well in all aspects of life.

 

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Matchmaker - The Benefits of using a Professional

With the advent of online dating, singles have been introduced to many modern conveniences for finding romance.  But like with all great technological advancements, the lack of personalized human guidance proves a great detriment.  Finding an online match may seem like a great way to weed through the eligible singles in your area, but there are still pitfalls to overcome – most notably the unreliable narrator of your selected date.  Going on a date with someone you’ve met online can sometimes be just as risky as going on a date completely blind.  You don’t know how recent your date’s photos may be or how much they’ve embellished their accomplishments or smoothed over their troubled pasts.  All of a sudden, you’re thrown for a loop and right back at the drawing board, trying to decide how best to find a suitable match. Setups through friends and family offer a slightly better advantage to finding a compatible date.  But with these setups also come unreasonable expectations and clouded judgments.  There’s no level of impartial observer to see past what a loved one may want for you versus what is in your actual best interest.

For these reasons and more, the use of a professional matchmaker in today’s world is more popular than ever.  For upwardly mobile single professionals, it’s common sense to outsource the nitty-gritty logistics of finding an eligible match to a seasoned professional.  A matchmaker has your best interests at heart with the impartial knowledge of what it takes to create an enduring and loving relationship.  Though you may have certain notions about what you’re looking for in a mate, a matchmaker has the wisdom to cut through superficialities in order to get to the heart of what will bring you lasting love.

Dating sites may have multitudes of sophisticated algorithms to mathematically predict your best match, but that’s no replacement for thoughtful human interaction.  Trust your heart to a matchmaker, and let her do Cupid's work.

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