The answer that most matchmakers & dating experts would give you is plain and simple. Approach anxiety is a set of unnecessary fears we men have about initially approaching women. I believe it is rooted somewhere in our hunter/gatherer genetics. After all, in nature, pretty much everything beautiful happens to be deadly as well. But women don’t typically tend to be dangerous to men (that is, of course, you’re John Wayne Bobbit). So why are we afraid?
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Today we have a simple trick that you can do to get the guy you're eyeing to approach you without fail. You don't have to put yourself out there by going up and talking to him. You don't even have to fear rejection when using this easy technique. So what is it? You have probably seen it ... maybe even unconsciously done it once or twice. But after I explain it, you'll wonder why you haven't been pulling this trick out of the bag every time you feel like you have chemistry with an attractive stranger.
Dating expertsknow that creating attraction before you even speak to a woman is all about confidence. This is something that comes naturally to some men but is often something that others need to work on. So how is it done? How do you make women attracted to you before you ever speak to them? Forget all of the gimmicks and B.S. tricks. What you’re after is the appearance of simple, natural confidence. The last thing you want is to come across as the guy who is poorly implementing tips from a training series he just bought from some douchy, self-proclaimed ‘Pick-up Artist’. Maybe that stuff works on weak women with very little self-esteem, but an intelligent, confident woman can smell that garbage from a mile away, and that’s the true prize. Right?
It’s anecdotal and pop cultural, with dozens upon dozens of songs, movies, and pieces literature themed around it. Sometimes you can feel the amorous weight to the air as you walk around town. Summer love and summer flings are definitely a thing; it’s all around us and undeniable.
Much of society, especially in America, places a lot of emphasis on committed relationships. Maintaining a long term relationship or moving from one to the next is how things are supposed to be. Being single is (in a lot of ways) looked at as just a break; the minimum necessary allotment of time needed for one to mourn or get over a relationship that has ended before moving on to the next.